Narcissistic Lovers: How to Cope, Recover and Move On by Cynthia Zayn & Kevin Dibble M.S

Author:Cynthia Zayn & Kevin Dibble M.S. [Zayn, Cynthia]
Language: eng
Format: epub
ISBN: 9780882823553
Publisher: New Horizon Press
Published: 2010-11-01T04:00:00+00:00

When the N meets a new woman, a woman who appears to possess admirable characteristics he desires, he is immediately drawn to her with the magical thinking that she could be “the one.”

In the beginning of their relationship, the N sees strengths and qualities in his partner he wishes to possess, so he immediately tries to convince her that they are meant to be together. His acute fear of abandonment intensifies his desire so he often rushes into things others would avoid in the early stages of relationships. He may tell his partner he is in love with her within weeks of meeting her. His need to secure the relationship and avoid abandonment drives him to become possessive, even with his partner’s things. He may refer to her house as “home,” or say “our car” instead of “your car.” By establishing ownership right away, he feels he is securing his catch and decreasing his chance of being deserted. Ironically, when things go awry in the relationship, the N doesn’t have an issue with abandonment, as he usually bolts, without looking back.

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